Thursday, July 14, 2011

Bis: What is your "type" for girls and guys? Are they different?

It kind of depends. I'm sort of more on the pan side of things, so gender is more like hair color to me than a major determinant of anything. And just like I don't usually like platinum blond hair on asians but may very well find the coloring attractive on someone who has it naturally, there are some traits that I don't like in association with one gender that I do like in association with the other. Conversely, there are things I like regardless of the bearer's gender--blue eyes and black/dark brown hair, for example. Emotionally, I tend to find myself looking for the same things regardless of gender, but the traits sometimes present differently. (Mostly I blame that on culture... Guys and girls are trained to express themselves differently, so sweetness in a guy isn't quite the same as sweetness in a girl, etc.)

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