I think he is a player?

I started dating this guy about a month ago. First week was great. Second week, we had plans one day ane he ended up ditching me. Claims he fell asleep. He went to San Diego for a weekend, called or texted me at least once a day. Next week, he starts pulling away again. Impossible to get ahold of. He says he is busy, yet he has no job. He seems very sweet and nice when I met him, which obviously is an act. I was very upset and ended up breaking it off a week ago. I met him Wenesday for lunch. He finally took me over to his place and said I could come over whenever I wanted. Also to call him when I need to. Anytime?? So Thursday rolls around, I am feeling frisky I just wanted sex. That was it. I texted him four times, no response. Even 14hrs later nothing. I asked him if he was married that afternoon via text and he flipped, said I weirded him out. LOL. My friend had a dream he was married and given these shenanigans I am thinking he def is. So I don't text or call him anymore at all, I feel like I am bothering him. It's pissin me off. We both agreed not to have sex with other people, but if he is always unavailable I'd like to be able to take care of my needs. This dude just makes no sense to me. He is player right? Any other advice would be great. I'm not attached to him, so it wouldn't be a biggie to lose him. I just don't get it. Thanks :) This is my first time dealing with this kinda guy,